Best Case Energy Transfer

So recently I found a new hairstylist that I really like. I'd been seeking someone who will help transform my hair into the healthiest version it can be, and through trial and errors, I feel like I've got it right this time. I knew she was the one by the way she washed my hair, when she prioritized the health of my hair over short term gains such as adding permanent color before ensuring its optimal health, and the way she made me feel about my natural tresses. All of these were reasons for me to want to return to her chair but the biggest reason was about her personally. The way she laughed, with her hands in my hair, spoke about her healthy and happy romantic relationship, and the idea that she, at the beautiful age of 50, was still going to the gym and investing in her long-term trainer. It was these tidbits that made me feel comfortable with her touching such a sacred part of my body; my crown. This may sound shallow, but these are real energy exchanges happening every time you entrust someone to provide a service for you. I understand that life happens for us all and I'm not expecting to have the Dalai Lama laying hands on me every time I set out for self-care but it helps to know that this person is walking around with the type of energy I value, especially since there will undoubtably be an exchange. I strive to surround myself with this abundance all around me, in every area of my life. What good am I doing for myself if I'm being depleted by the same person who is meant to be filling my cup, for my self-care?